I miss sex less than company
You know, when you think about it sex is a massive part of any relationship. It always has been a part of mine; i’m afraid i can’t stay with someone who doesn’t keep me physically satisfied any more than i could be with someone who was dumb (yeah i’m an intellectual snob get over it).
But now i have been single for getting on for 6 months i find that it’s the other parts of being in a relationship that i miss more than the sweaty bedroom fun. I miss talking, walking, just hanging out with someone who wants to be with me for no other reason than i am who i am. Is this symptomatic of having a smallish circle of real-life friends to hang out with or is it just that with everyone other than a significant other there is an agenda to most meetings?
I miss Sunday morning lie-ins, tea and toast in bed, i miss giggling about things that other people just don’t get. I miss the phone call to ask obscure trivia questions and i miss being ‘got’ by someone.
Then again, given the circumstances of my last 2 breakups i like being single much more than being in a relationship with someone who is too scared to tell me when it’s over and i definitely like being single more than i like being cheated on.
it’s a fine line…how do you know when to cross it and with who?
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I’m just off men. If it ends up that a love you believed in completely wasn’t there…then I’m not sure if you can trust anything for a while…
I struggle with the trust thing, i hold myself back now in relationships which obviously doesnt help him trust me either…
Give it a few more months – you’ll miss the sex more than the company.
I know what you’re saying about ‘someone that gets you’ and all the other little things you get from a partner, but when you’re comfortable being single, you get most of it from friends. But you can’t get sex from friends!
Trust: even though I’m the prime candidate for having no trust in men, I really don’t think of it all that much. If someone’s going to cheat on you, they will. No amount of worrying or psycho behaviour will stop it .. it may infact encourage it. You never know when a relationship will break down so you may as well enjoy each day as it comes, hope for a future and stop worrying about if he’s going to cheat on you. If you do, then all the cheating bastards win … again.
I miss the companionship, the sharing part of a relationship more than the sex. It’s very difficult to open up to a new person, no matter how much you want to, once your trust has been broken. I hope you find someone that you can do that with.
i find i hold back in relationships. and cos i hve spent more of my life single than in a relationship i fail to function in a relationship. and the older you get the harder it is to trust and love fully.
i guess you won’t know until you are in that moment. jst be open…
Hehehe. Thats a good topic. Thank you for this important ideas..
I miss the sex already and its only been 3 months…
Dearest,
I am from Sri Lanka. I am looking for my happiness with the right person …
I am not happy in my life today. I exactly can’t findout reasons as those vary oftenly. I got married recently. I want to tell my story to that special person.
So, I am looking for that special person, to have a confidential and advisory descretae relationship, which will be developed for more extremes if we are positive…
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I want make my life to be more comfortable than now and don’t want any trouble in future through this type of relationships.
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Thank you